Questions for discussion:

1) Is it true that in any conflict both sides are always guilty?
2) Should I consider any conflict to be mea culpa?
3) By what criteria can we decide who is right and who is wrong?
4) Do you try to understand your opponent? Do you want him to understand you? Can you say to your opponent what he thinks in such words that he will agree that he is understood right?
5) Are people always aware of their motives? Are they responsible for motives they are nor aware of?
6) Should we always forgive people their debts, as Christians suggest? Is it so even when someone does not recognize one's debts?
7) Will unresolved conflicts mean something in the afterlife world?
8) Do you want bad people to go to hell and to pay for what they have done?